Inspired by my dearest Marie's blog post on Friendster. I have decided to write bout it too.

Just yesterday I received a(nother) friend request by this (desperate) guy. As much as I like to find my friends on Friendster after losing contact with them for ages. I don't really fancy the idea of having people I don't know msging me and adding me.

I just don't understand why some guys are so desperate to meet girls. Espeically those boys who have just gone through puberty and are on the hunt for girls on the streets. The classic example being them asking "Xiao jie, ke yi gen ni zuo peng you ma?" As also illustrated on Marie's blog when Fen got picked up. Sheesh are their skins really that thick to feel no shame at all? As if they just want to be friends with you. I'm sure they have enough friends, obviously they're hoping for smth more to happen.

I'm not saying ALL guys (whether Singaporean or not) are like tat. Hey, my boi and practically all the guys I noe are definitely not like tat. So there. :)

Ok I digressed.. back to Friendster. These guys try to pick u up and they haven't even met you in person for gdness sake. They see your pictures and think you seem friendly and fun. Sorry mister, think again. Not ALL of us girls are THAT friendly and fun. I don't know exactly what their definition of fun is, what your definition of their fun is. But yo me, it's pretty straightforward. Who in the world would describe someone as being fun when you just see pictures of tat person. Sheesh.

I must admit that it is not entirely the fault of these guys who msg. Because there are those girls who would jump at the chance to meet new guys and are more than happy to receive such requests. They do give us a bad name, but hey that's the life they like, I can't do anyting. But all I can say is don't generalize thank you very much.

*Sigh* Friendster has now become another version of IRC for these guys who are out on the prowl.

Because of all these recent happenings there's a new addition to my profile:
I've met all the people I want to meet and if I do meet you in the future then good. But pls dun go adding me because I AM NOT INTERESTED in making friends through friendster. Thank you very much.

If such guys still msg me or add me that just goes to show how much their minute sized brains are working, if it is at all.


*Note: Pls forgive me if you have known ppl through Friendster and wonderful friendships have blossomed. I'm talking mainly bout those who go around trying to make friends in the hopes of getting smth more den friendship (ie: sex) out of it.

Tash @ 3:12 PM